okay, i would like to ask a question, i mean i seriously have nothing against guys, i mean, if they are nice and seem pretty cool i can get along with em...

buuut....

what is it with guys and breasts, i don't mean small ones, some guys just have some weird obsession with 'em, i mean no offense meant, i'm just curious and would appreciate it if someone would enlighten me ^^.

oh and ummm, i've noticed if a guy is trying to chat you up, like full on, and you tell them that you are gay, well...have fun, they either try harder or just instantly hate on you, although i have some interesting conversations with guys after they find out i am a lesbian. but i don't like the haters...it hurts when they get abusive about, i mean, i just can't live a lie and pretend to be straight, i mean, it's not hurting them is it?